Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Courage, bravery

My grandfather is old and he is going to die like everyone in this world. Most of the time, death is a sad moment in the life but death is unavoidable. Consequently, you have to relax and not to feel depressed and downcast. You have to think about the present and to enjoy the life with everybody as much as possible.

The last year, my uncle died in China and we still don't know the main reason of his death. The government told to my family that my uncle had committed suicide but we have still no proof.
For sure, I was very sad but I tried to be brave and to do something to help my widowed aunt.
I tried to see her a lot of times to cheer her up.
It was a very difficult situation for me. I didn't show a lot of sadness but I was downcast. Therefore, I tried to remind myself of all the good memories I had had with my uncle. It is a very difficult way to avoid the depression but it only works if you are brave enough.

Consequently, you have to enjoy the time with your family and your friends as much as possible because you know that they are going to die. You have to keep in mind that everybody is going to die.

It is my advice to feel better after and before the death of someone.

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